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Se un bambino ha dei limiti


Scritto da Vincenzo Prunelli

[...] Se, invece, il limite è solo l'impossibilità di get to excel in sports, the problem lies with the adults, parents or coaches, not the child, ask him just what he can give and be satisfied, because we do not always win and make the sample even when it is not possible. This is about children, and it's time we take off the head with them can make a team just to win. We say this because someone has to do it, because the institutions responsible for the control also have no idea about that, and because those who did not understand that, should no longer have to deal with children. [...]

Courtesy of the author and New Youth Sports


You just take all the precautions because un bambino che già deve patire un limite possa frequentare lo sport con gioia e i vantaggi che lo sport deve offrire a tutti. Dobbiamo però evitare quegli atteggiamenti che possono creare disagio, non opprimerlo con falsi compatimenti e tenere presenti due considerazioni.

La prima, che il rispetto vero in questo caso è quello che si deve a tutti. Vuole dire non chiedergli più di ciò che può dare, ma chiederglielo tutto senza sconti, concessioni o compensazioni puramente formali che lo farebbero sentire ancora più diverso. La seconda, è che deve poter giocare con compagni con i quali può vincere e perdere, per non costringerlo a confrontarsi con altri che lo sconfiggeranno sempre e trasformarlo in uno sconfitto anche out of sport. If the deficit
allows him to play in order to do their part as the others, then, we just treat him like everyone else, without favoritism or special privileges, which would put the lowly and against others. If you do not succeed, we are not hypocrites and humanitarian at all costs. Sport should be for everyone, but not seeking a post that maybe forced us both noble and advanced, but creates unnecessary suffering to the boy. We are looking for him, and for any child less talented than others, a team or a sport in which to compete equally, and without fear of hurting him and making him feel downgraded, why deny the obvious is unnecessary protection and a lack of respect , and force where a measure can not do it, it is always harmful.

Sometimes the child to want to play when and where it is always a loser. In these cases, you should see if not only seeks to satisfy the illusions of their parents. And this is done, if the limit allows it also to have fun, let's play for what it can, because our work with children is just that. Meanwhile, however, we try to direct it towards a sport that does not suffer from the difference with others.
However, if the limit is just impossible to get to excel in sports, the problem lies with the adults, parents or coaches, not the child: just ask him what he can give and be satisfied, because we do not always win and make the sample even when it is not possible. This is about children, and it's time we take off the head with them can make a team just to win. We say this because someone has to do it, because the institutions responsible for the control also have no idea about that, and because those who did not understand that, should no longer have to deal with children.

course, going forward who has limits will not make it too obvious to keep pace. When will be the case, parents should take him to where he can play and keep abreast of friends and entertain, or him to practice a different sport. This statement seems at odds with our belief that everyone should play and not only play to win, but if the difference with others is too large would be much more negative educational impact force a guy to always measure from loser.




Who is Vincent Prunelli
It 's a doctor who specializes in Neuropathology and Psychiatry at the University of Turin, Psychoanalyst of the Italian Society of Individual Psychology, Director of the Italian Association of Sport Psychology, member of the National of Journalists, wrote on scientific subjects, cultural and sports in a non-continuous in La Stampa (Tuttoscienze and Mirror), the Republic and Gazzetta dello Sport, and for two years continuously Tuttosport on.
He wrote: "The kicker: education, professional, psychological aspects", 1984, Science Center editor; hundred lives for the sport, "1992, Pacini Editore," Sport and the formation of man, "FIGC 1992," Soccer Training athlete, from the first kick to the professional ", 1994, Centro Scientifico Editore" Book of the field, 1996, Omega editions, in cooperation "Psychology of Sport in four hundred questions and answers", 1998, Calzetti Mariucci and Publishers, "Applications parents ", 2002, international publishing company
" Sport and competitiveness ", 2002, Franco Angeli Publisher

In sport he has worked since 1978 for several years as a psychologist sport at the Torino Calcio, where I've come up with Sergio Vatta theories on the formation and conduction, then transported to the Italian Football Federation, where I worked from 1992 to 1993. He worked in the

Ipifim, then Robe di Kappa, basketball from 1990 to 1993.

exercises as a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist and sports psychologist

Editor of THE DOCTOR SNAME

creator and curator of the project NuovoSportGiovani